Conscious Conception: A Preparation of the Mind, Body, and Spirit with Elaine Lopez-Bogard


In today’s podcast, Liz together with Elaine, talk about helping conscious women prepare their mind, body and spirit for conception to create a conscious conception. Preparing for motherhood takes more than just the physical.

Since there’s no guidelines or book of directions for motherhood, the preparations never come too easy. Some women are blessed enough to experience normal conception and delivery. Others, however, face unfortunate events of miscarriages and abortion. For them, getting over the experience physically, mentally and emotionally, is very exhausting and demotivating. Self-healing for these women needs double the effort and double the support. This is why exercises and activities that promote conscious conception are encouraged and developed.

Elaine experienced a similar situation and knew how hard it is to get back on your own two feet and live up to the expectations you have for yourself yet again. And so that was when she started creating this environment of isolation for self-healing. She started learning about the emotional roots of physical pain and kinesiology. She focused on personal development among women who seek self-healing after a painful loss and among pregnant women who are eager to practice conscious conception. It is amazing how small, continuous efforts of self-care heals people.

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In conscious conception, mothers are expected to communicate with their babies and be responsive and more mindful of their womb space. Conscious conception involves the preparation of the mind, body and spirit, altogether. It is important to let women know that there are other ways to approach conception, fertility and pregnancy.

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Liz Lima:

Welcome back. Venus warriors. Thank you for being here with me again today. And this is the special episodes of where I do interviews of phenomenal women who have gone through some type of struggle or challenge obstacle in their life and they've overcome it and they are now going after their passion and purpose. Maybe started a business, a movement, whatever it is. But the point is, is that I have them come on here, they share their time with me and most importantly, they share their story so that we can hear it. And we know that, you know, someone else might be going through what you're going through right now or they've gone through it. And so this really is, is the hope and, and the ability to give you that vision and a hope and know that you can overcome what it is you're going through right now and you can achieve what it is that you want to achieve. But I'm going to be quiet. Elaine, how are you?

Elaine Lopez-Bogard:

I'm doing well. Thank you so much.

Liz Lima:

Absolutely. And so could you actually, explain to our listeners what it is that you do in business and how do you serve people?

Elaine Lopez-Bogard:

Sure. So I help conscious women prepare their mind, body and spirit for conception to create a conscious conception. You know, preparing the body, for motherhood is, is really important. You know, there's so many, so many emotions and experiences that come up that we're just not sure of. And so what I do is just help women along the way prepare for that. And I, I especially love helping women that have had a pregnancy loss before. And a pregnancy loss can be anything from a miscarriage, a stillbirth, infant death, or even abortion.

Liz Lima:

Wow. So you know what, I didn't think about it anymore after I had my babies and I said, okay, I'm done with that. So, but what did, what a good point, because it's something that isn't, at least to me, it wasn't really taught or explained or not enough information on about like preparing to be pregnant, right? Like it was just the, you know, you just try to get pregnant and get pregnant and pee on a stick. Literally. That's, that's all that was told to me. So

Liz Lima:

Well, before, before I get there, how about this, what made you go, what made you go down this road? What made you go into this business?

Elaine Lopez-Bogard:

So what made me, or what I'll say, what changed my life was my miscarriage. Okay. So back in 2010 I became pregnant. I was so excited. I just past the first trimester and I was like, I'm in the clear right because you hear most miscarriages happen in the first trimester. I was just past the first trimester and started having some spotting and I was just like, no, no, that's not going to happen to me. That happens to other women, not me. So sure enough, I go to the doctor and they say there's no heartbeat. And I was devastated. I felt like I had just been hit by a bus because I couldn't, I couldn't like understand that they just told me there was no baby. And so I went into like a kind of like a depression and focused on, and then the tried to focus on myself, but I hadn't told anybody that I was pregnant.

Elaine Lopez-Bogard:

So then I couldn't tell anybody I lost the baby. And so it created this environment of isolation. And so then, like I said, I just, after that, once I started feeling better, I was focused on my own self healing. a few years later I started to study kinesiology. I'm looking at the body as a whole and the, I learned about the emotional root causes of physical ailments. And during that time was when I realized, how much my, all my, my stuffed emotions related to my loss were affecting me. And I was able to bring those up and release them and be free. I felt so free. I felt so light. I hadn't realized what an impact stuffing those emotions have on me until I let them go. So when I finished kinesiology school, I said, I am on a mission to help women heal their grief from pregnancy loss.

Elaine Lopez-Bogard:

So that's what I started doing. And along the way, I was still working on personal development and as I was doing that, I began studying, traditional, proven shamanism, traditional Mexican healing, traditional other energy healing modalities by my psychic gifts opened up, my mediumship gifts opened up. And so then what I realized is that, the spirits, the souls of these babies, of my clients, either the babies that had a, were miscarried or the babies or women wanting to get pregnant started coming to me. And so that's how, how everything shifted. So it was because of my miscarriage that really changed the trajectory of my life because like I have a degree, my degree is in information technology and so went from a webmaster to like a shamonic practitioner. Like how extremely different,

Liz Lima

Oh, that's amazing though. See, that's, but why do you feel, do you feel that that happened so that you would go into this road?

Elaine Lopez-Bogard:

Yes. I have since realized that that's exactly the reason why it happens with my, the, the baby that I miscarried has come forward as my spirit guide and has showed me that that was the way to get my attention to help other women in this work. And so now I just have so much fun. So much fun helping women, preparing and really giving, giving women hope. So many women on the path to motherhood get caught up in a process of they have to do x, Y, Z and making it just so task oriented to create a baby. And when we work with spirit and we work with healing emotions and relate, releasing anything that could be trapped inside of the wound space, from an energetic and spiritual perspective, anything is possible.

Liz Lima

Absolutely. You know, and this, this such as my heart, not because I'm, I did not have a miscarriage. but my mother had nine miscarriages. So this, you know, this touches me because of what she went through, you know, and, and I remember we had a conversation. I believe it's right after had I had my first son. Was that, you know, we spoke about it and she said, now mind you, this was a long time ago, so we're talking seventies, right? 60 Seventies. And she said to me that it was so difficult that if she had to do it again, she would have, you know, and I can see, you know, now with all the learning that I've been doing, I just learned about shamanism. I, you know, these things are fascinating when, you know, you kind of have an inkling of things are happening, right? But you now it's like a big world where you're like, oh, that's what's happening type of stuff. But I, I completely agree with what you're saying about healing that emotion, those things, that energy that's caught up there because of what has previously happened before or it's just, it's caught up there. That's unbelievable.

Elaine Lopez-Bogard:

Yeah. And you know that the statistics are one in four women experiences, some type of a pregnancy loss. And that is huge. And as a society, like how are we supporting these women? You know, how can we bring more awareness? And so that's part of my soul mission is just to help bring the souls forward and bring more awareness and peace on journey to motherhood.

Liz Lima:

Absolutely. I think this is wonderful because you're like what we said before, I don't, I don't remember ever having this type of preparing, the only preparing, like you said that, that, that I remember is yeah, we had to do this. We had to do, I had, I had like once, you know, you get to a certain age, you gotta have you gotta be pregnant now. Like, you know what I mean? Like it was so you're right, there was like no emotion there, you know?

Elaine Lopez-Bogard:

Right, right. Yeah. So much pressure, so much pressure around it that it becomes like, like a project. Like I said, so many of my clients are, like just task oriented. And I'm just like, hold on, we have to bring some flow into this, you know, let's make it fun and not, not such a task because I mean, even working with the, the spirit babies, they want to come and be, if you think about like the moment of conception, you know, they want to come to a place of, you know, extreme love, not where it's so rigid and hence, you know, if you think about like joy and, you know, like a joyful baby or a colleague, a baby, you know, I feel like some of those attributes can be, attributed to the moment of conception. Like what were those circumstances and how can we shift that to, to make it, to help women to be more open to receive basically.

Liz Lima:

Yeah, absolutely. So how, so how long, how long have you been doing this?

Elaine Lopez-Bogard:

I've been doing this work since 2014.

Liz Lima:

Nice. Nice. Were you, were you surprised, um, that were you surprised at the amount of women that, came forward maybe t to receive help in this?

Elaine Lopez-Bogard:

Well, it's interesting. It kind of comes in waves. Like I'll have a wave of women that are completely ready to, to dig deep, but then I have waves of women that don't acknowledge or don't want to even look at any of these emotions. Right? They think that, oh no, I, you know, especially women that have had a loss. Some women are like, oh no, it's just part of motherhood. Like I don't have any fear. I don't have any anxiety when in fact that is a big, those are the big emotions when you're trying to conceive after a loss, right?

Elaine Lopez-Bogard:

Because there's so many my milestones that are related to what happened in your previous experience. When we look at it energetically, we look at it and then we can acknowledge it and release it. And then also looking at any, any other aspects of let's see, interference and consumption, like any past life, trauma, any, any Karmic, issues, any ancestral, where is it in the ancestral line. And you know, we just, you know, working with Spirit, it's always fun because, you know, we're so supported and we just have to ask for help and we will receive the help and the guidance and the wisdom of how to shift things quickly in, in our life. And that goes for anything, not just a baby. It's anything that we want to create.

Liz Lima:

Absolutely. I fully agree with that. because like example for me with all of my degrees, right, I thought, you know, I thought that that's, that's what I wanted to do in life and I had to check all these boxes and, and then it was just at a point where it's like, I'm not happy. This is not right. Right. And that, you know, you just, you, you get silent, you get quiet and you just ask for help and just, and listen and meditate. And I will tell you, I am not a meditation experts. It is still a practice for me. I'm still practicing. But it's unbelievable what can happen when you actually just sit down and be quiet for a minute.

Elaine Lopez-Bogard:

Yes. A lot of what I do is I help teach women how to connect to their own bodies and how to connect, especially to their womb space, right? If our womb space really is about creation and it's not, like I said earlier, just it's not just about creating a baby, it can be a business of book with it. Whatever it is that you want to create, it's tapping into that innate creation energy. And as you connect to that space are, Womb has so much wisdom to share with. You just have to be present and be open to receive it. And like you can receive like step by step guidance of what to do quickly and easily two to manifest whatever it is that you're wanting to manifest.

Liz Lima:

And I think it's wonderful one who when someone is finally exposed to it and if they're open to understanding or even trying and believing right even a little bit. Right. So do you see, okay, so then do you see that that is something that, that these women are open to? I, I, they, are they really in a point where they're just, they're just ready?

Elaine Lopez-Bogard:

Yeah. Yeah. Most women that I work with are ready and, you know, I just, I love when women are, are ready and open and they know that there's something more that they know that something that has been missing and, and it just creates this, this beautiful space. And especially when we connect with their baby that wants to come forward. Right. That just makes a huge difference in, in the conception journey and the fertility journey just to having that strength in that wisdom and from the spirit baby because they come with a lot of information that they want to share. They, they come with their own sole mission and they're, they're pretty, uh, pretty, like they know what they want when they incarnate, and so they share that beforehand. And so it makes it fun and, and uh, yeah, just, I feel like it's shifting the whole paradigm around consumption and fertility.

Liz Lima:

Absolutely. I think, I think it's wonderful. So, so then how, how does is this, is this in person, is this a face to face faces? It's online. How do you, how do you normally do these, these types of actually what is it that like how does this work? Like what happens.

Elaine Lopez-Bogard:

So it's all my clients are all over the world and I meet over zoom because I mean it's energy that we're working with it's spirit so we don't have to be in person. I live in Hawaii and so, yeah, I'm kind of far away from a lot of people. So distance is not an issue at all. And so we, I just work at the soul level basically and talk to the woman's soul and ask, you know, what is it that they need? How can we support them? What, where are the energetic blocks?

Elaine Lopez-Bogard:

And because I can see the end scene, I do a scan of the body and I can actually see that, like the density of the energy and then work on getting to the root of it, like the root of the root of what is going on. What is causing that, that energetic density and then working on releasing it and then, you know, bringing in, angels and spirit and whatever support is for that person, that family, the whole family. And then just bringing all of that energy and wisdom in. So I like to think of it kind of as like, like an energy river. Like I've said, I'm like a reality weaver because it's just like pulling energy from these different spaces, like these different dimensions and we need into this space here to help strengthen, it's going much on spiritual body. And then the other part of it is I'm also a kinesiologist. And so with can museology, that's muscle testing. And so I can work with the physical body and figure out what part of the physical body is out of balance and what type of supplement or vitamin or mineral that the person needs to strengthen their physical body. Because there really is a balance of physical and, energetic, balance to really help strengthen the entire body.

Liz Lima:

Oh yeah. So, so this, when you were talking about, when you're scanning the body, I actually have a question. So do you see, do you see anything different with maybe a woman who, who had previously conceived? So it has the child already and then wants to try again. Do you, do you see any differences there because of a previous experience?

Elaine Lopez-Bogard:

Well, everyone is really different first of all. So, I'll say yes, it is every, it's just everyone is different. And working at the soul level, I'm, I just go wherever I'm guided to goes. Oh yeah. But there are some common themes. Like the common theme would be around like not trusting yourself. Not Trusting your body, right? Because if you think about, especially women that have had a loss before, there's a lot of fear around that and fear, guilt and shame related to their body thinking that they did something wrong or there's something inferior about their own body. And so that is, one of the things we look at in the beginning is what can we do to help strengthen that so they have confidence in their body and in themselves to know that we can take them to this space of infinite potential, infinite possibility for them.

Liz Lima:

So is this something where it's, it sounds a, it sounds amazing. Um, B I don't you do this in once shot cause it sounds like it would be a lot for like in one session, right?

Elaine Lopez-Bogard:

Yeah. No it's not. It's not,

Liz Lima:

It would be very to me, I would be a little overwhelmed. I think

Elaine Lopez-Bogard:

Yeah. No. I generally work in three or six month time periods and it just depends on the woman and their experiences. And so, you know, I tune in to figure out where they are and how, how much that they need going forward. But I would say that the average, most of my clients are about remind and then that takes them into the, into the pregnancy. And then along the way I also offer support during pregnancy because as you're pregnant, you know the the baby and he has different needs. Physical body, you know, how can we support the brain development, how can we support organ development and also the mother, lots of different emotions come up along the way. And so I also offered that as supportive as well.

Liz Lima:

Oh good. I was actually thinking about that as you were speaking and I'm like there's no way that she's going to help you and then she kind of drops you. Right. I need to know.

Elaine Lopez-Bogard:

Yeah. I'm, a deal. It is a big deal. So you can just like think of me as your life, your whole like conception, pregnancy, bestie along the way, you know.

Liz Lima:

Absolutely. okay, Yeah I was, I'm really glad that you said that cause I was thinking about it because this is an experience that, okay, I'll be honest, I never would have thought, you know, I could have done this right. I wouldn't have no, no, no thought that this was available. And so being able to go through that experience and then understanding, right. And I kinda just got goosebumps, right. Because think about how amazing to go through that process and have and have it just be, you know, loving and happy. Right. And, and a great experience. And then to be able to continue it on throughout, throughout the pregnancy because now it's a whole different aspect of what's going on. Right,

Elaine Lopez-Bogard:

Exactly. And so many different emotions come up, so many different challenges come up, you know? And so I love being able to be, you know, in the corner of my client's supporting them being there like their confidant because there are things that come up that sometimes they can't even share with their partner, you know? And so I'm grateful to be able to be that support along the way.

Liz Lima:

Yeah. Right on, on, especially like you said with things that come up, we are things right. And you're just like, why? Why am I, why am I thinking this or what?

Liz Lima:

Yeah, it's true because sometimes I don't think I even said those things to my friends cause I think they probably thought it would be crazy. Exactly right. Oh, this is great.

Elaine Lopez-Bogard:

And so it's like, you know, shifting, like I said, it removing the isolation part of this whole journey because it is a journey and it's, it's a huge, like I feel like it's like, an initiation, of you know, not just motherhood, but a sacred initiation to, to be responsible for another life and to try to make this just like this beautiful loving space. And also, if you think about even during pregnancy, you know, studies have shown that the, the fetus can feel whatever emotion the mother fields. And so trying to make this as, as beautiful and experience early on as possible for the baby really makes a difference.

Liz Lima:

I was happy when I, when I read that or heard that, I remember hearing that about the emotions, affecting, babies. And I was really happy that people were like publicly talking about it. You know what I mean? Like that. This is, you know, this really happens, you know, emotions, energy, all that stuff is going on and it's, of course it's going to affect a living thing inside of you.

Elaine Lopez-Bogard:

Right, And then teaching, I also teach the women how to connect with the soul of the baby as it's growing inside of them so that they can understand when it needs the entire way so that we may have a newborn and maybe then you weren't crying in, they're overwhelmed and they don't know what to do. They can just, you know, to an this baby at a full level and find out exactly what it, what the baby needs because the information is there. You, the mom and the baby are so connected at that communication can open up early on. And I joke with some of my clients, I'm like, yeah, you don't even need to teach your baby infant sign language because you're going to talk to them at a soul level anyway, you know?

Liz Lima:

Yeah. You know, if I wasn't a done with babies, I would totally do this, but I'm, I'm, I'm over that. I was like, I have to, I'm a, I'm a little over the hill for that, but, oh, what an amazing experience. I'm a little jealous actually.

Elaine Lopez-Bogard:

Well, thank you. And Yeah, I'm just, I just want more women to know that this is available and that there are, there are other options. There are other ways to approach conception, conception, fertility, pregnancy.

Liz Lima:

Absolutely. is there anything that you have like a burning desire to say or mention that I may not have touched upon?

Elaine Lopez-Bogard:

Well, I feel like I want, I just, I know I kind of touched on it earlier. I really just want to say that there's, there's always hope. There are so many, so many souls ready to come forward right now. And there's always hope. And so regardless of what Western medicine has told you, you, regardless of what, what is in your family history, regardless of the number of pregnancy losses you've had, there's always hope. And I know I'm a big optimist, but you know, I, I've seen it, I've seen so many miracles happen before my eyes that I just, there's always hope and, and so, yeah, there's, there's just always hope.

Liz Lima:

Yeah, there is. I mean, because my mom had nine, so yes. Hope.

Elaine Lopez-Bogard:

And especially when we're tapping into the energetic field, you know, this quantum field of possibility, you know, we can bring that in even faster and manifest this dream life dream of being a mother. You know, it doesn't have to be so rigid is what I'm going to say because that's how so many women come to me so 10th and I'm just like, no, no, let's, let's relax. Let's just feel into it. Let's make this, you know,

Liz Lima:

Absolutely. How, how can people find out more about you? How can they see your, your offer is how, how can we learn more?

Elaine Lopez-Bogard:

Yes. You can find me on Facebook. It's Elaine Bogard, fertility intuitive and soul midwife. And my website is www.healingthewomb.com.

Liz Lima:

Perfect. And, I will have all of this in the show notes. So everyone that's listening, don't worry about writing it down if you're driving because I will have it all there for you. So when you are listening after you can just click right on it. And I asked you because I, I'm speaking from my opinion and my feeling on this is that if you know anyone that is trying to conceive or is, you know, in the future, is thinking about a family and children, I highly urge you and ask you to share this because I think this is unbelievable. I'm a, I'm actually in a Fomo jealousy right now because this is really, really amazing. I really do. I really hope that that you all will share this with someone that, you know, that may be going through something, you know, if it was a challenge or maybe they are just starting and they want to feel just better about the whole process. I think this is unbelievable. Thank you so much Elaine. I, I'm really, really, I had no idea that this is where it was going to go.

Elaine Lopez-Bogard:

Yeah. Thank you. Thank you for the opportunity.

Liz Lima:

Absolutely.

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